"She's going to love your chair!"
Ruby is now just shy of a year old. It's been wonderful watching her grow and develop from day to day. I held her when she was just hours old and now I feel a kinship with her as she crawls around the floor. We two are the one's who don't walk.
Mike had said that she loves anything that she can climb up and that my wheelchair was going to be her new favourite toy. It was. She took one look at me rolling in to the apartment and her eyes went from recognition - "Hey, I know that guy!" - to excitement "Never noticed the wheelchair, wow, now that 's a cool toy." - to desire - "I'm heading over there to get a closer look." - and curiosity - "I wonder what it tastes like?" All those looks in just a fleeting moment.
Then she was off. I saw her coming and locked the chair to ensure that it wouldn't move and then watched her size up the chair like a mountain climber searching for the safest passage. Once she figured it out, she began to climb. Seconds later she was standing up and reaching out her hand to me. I took it and she grinned. But enough of that, she let go and then began moving carefully around the chair testing out how far she could go while still standing.
Now she's under the chair banging at the wheels and laughing. I feel her hit at the back of my legs and then attempt to climb again but finding that there wasn't quite enough room under the chair for her to stand. She didn't tire of exploring the chair for ten or twelve minutes. She covered the whole thing, grabbed at the bag on the back, tried to twist the rubber off the foot lifts on the back, chased a ball underneath and through the wheels.
I felt like the best ride at an amusement park.
When we left Joe commented that the wheelchair was a big hit with Ruby. Even though I've been in the chair since she was borne and have held her sleeping while sitting in the chair, this is the first time she noticed it.
And it didn't scare her.
It just intrigued her.
She stilled climbed up my chest, danced while standing on my knees, and giggled when her dad grabbed her off me and up into the air.
But now I am complete to her, I come attached to my wheels.
Though I'm not Dave to her yet, I'm still - "Hey, I recognize you!"
That's good enough for now.