Wednesday, May 31, 2017

How To Thump Trump

Let me say, for the record, and to no one's surprise, that I don't like Donald Trump's policies or politics. I think his manner and his mouth have created an atmosphere that endorses violence and encourages prejudice. There, I've said it.

Many of the people I know personally and virtually feel the same way.

Let me also say that I don't care about his hair, his tan, his weight or any other superficial thing about him. I don't think that any of those things have any place in the debate about his policies. I believe it's what he does that makes him concerning to people like me - I think calling him names about his supposed 'orangeness' trivializes the danger he poses and makes arguments against his policies seem secondary to his look and his presence.

I'm only guessing here but I'd say that less than 10 percent of the posts I read that are anti-Trump speak strictly about his policies and his politics. All the rest have some element that would be classified as 'bully' commentary about him physically. Everyone seems to be trying to outdo everyone else in regards to put downs about his looks in one way or another.

These are the self same people who post anti-bullying memes and make public statements about fat shaming and about other forms of lookist propaganda. There seems to be a belief that when someone else says it, they are a bully, when I say it it's funny commentary.

I don't like Trump.

I don't like his policies.

His politics scare me.

I think that he will put forward platforms and make changes that will kill people.

Can we talk about that?

And not about his hair?

Or his weight?

Or his tan?

We should be so against bullying and teasing and name calling that we don't do it, even against those that we don't like. It's easy not to bully a friend. It's a piece of cake not to tease someone you love. The test of our mettle is when it comes to applying the same standard of behaviour to those who we, even violently, oppose.

Stop Bullying.

You want to thump Trump, do it with respectful, loud, challenges to what he is DOING.


Frank_V said...


Unknown said...

Not only are the personal criticisms bullying and therefore not at all appropriate, Trump is not bothered by the opinions of the faceless public. So he goes along doing what he wants to do while we mutter and chatter. If he is publicly disrespected by someone whose approval he seeks, he lashes out.
For the rest of us, it is about taking action of some sort - just talking to those who agree with you already doesn't count.

As you say, doing damns the darkness.


Sparrow Rose said...

Thank you!! I was just complaining about the same thing this morning. As a trans man, all the focus on Trump's genitals (and "small hands") really throws me under the bus to get at him. I tried telling people that for s long time, but no one cared. They told me to lighten up. They said it wasn't about me. They said it was OK because he was so awful.

It's never OK. If it's not OK to body shame, it's never OK to body shame. It's not OK to shame people over there wait, over their genitalia, but calling them a "neck beard". It's never OK.

I've also said the same thing about calling him orange, or cheeto, trivializing the very real danger he presents and had that brushed aside as well.

Thank you so much for saying these important things.

Glee said...


GirlWithTheCane said...

Thank you, Dave.

Cari Watrous said...

What Donald Trump is proposing in his medicaid budget cuts will do 2 things to people with disabilities who rely on it for medical care: kill some, make others disabilities worse, will send our people back into institutions where they have no choice. Places that continue to accept medicaid payments will go under if they don't jack prices up for everyone else, and pushing up taxes to cover the Federal government's side of the equation. If we are back in institutions where cost are significantly more than in the community - that drives costs up too.

If we are institutions, we aren't working so there's really no need to ask businesses to make where their employees work accessible. We aren't shopping cuz we aren't working and don't have any money, so there's really no need for business to make those pesky modifications at all.

The head of housing and urban development believes that poverty is a state of mind, but that's another soapbox, I have a lot these days.

Cari Watrous

Ron Arnold said...

To be honest . . . I don't think Mr. Trump has any idea of what he's doing. He's Robert Redford's "The Candidate" and his ascendance to the Presidency was America's "Fuck It" moment.

GirlWithTheCane said...

Cari, you've just proven that you can do *exactly* what Dave's talking about - you talked clearly and with passion about how Trump's policies will affect disabled people, and not once did you resort to calling him names or mocking his appearance or making ableist comments about his mental health status. His policies are heinous enough on their own without sinking to the level that he's proven he can, with the name-calling and the shaming (of all kinds) and the mocking and multiple "-isms".

We can resist without being pulled to a lower level of discourse.