Of Battered Aspect

doing damns the darkness / A Blog By Dave Hingsburger

Wednesday, May 08, 2019

Not So Much

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I saw them at the mall. So did everyone else. He was tall and strong. His tight tee shirt emphasized his lean, strong, torso. He obvious...
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Tuesday, May 07, 2019

Maybe

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I sat waiting, for a long time, outside the accessible toilet. The green light had indicated that it was in use and I had tested the door to...
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Saturday, May 04, 2019

Back

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I'm back. When I fell ill we had several trips booked, airplane tickets bought, hotel rooms sorted. We have never been so organized. I...
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Thursday, May 02, 2019

Good Thing or Bad Thing

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I had just gotten myself positioned at the cable machine to do punches, straight ahead, upwards, downwards. I'd increased the weights an...
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Tuesday, April 30, 2019

A Good Sleep

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"So, I heard you'd been really sick," she said, standing at my door. My door at work is almost always open. I like to be acc...
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Sunday, April 28, 2019

Lucky to be Free?

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Yep. Had all sorts of plans for today. Got up and didn't want to do them. Wanted to watch T.V. Wanted to surf the web. Wanted ...
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Saturday, April 27, 2019

The Reason Why

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He was sitting, at a table in a busy food court, looking very, very, alone. He kept an eye on his mom who was in the line up to pick up some...
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Friday, April 26, 2019

Nice Unaware Untrained Unthinking Love

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I am, when advocating for things like the right to pee, almost always told that prejudice, specifically ableism and disphobia, do not exist....
Thursday, April 25, 2019

Fight

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An accessible toilet has been made inaccessible. The door used to swing both ways, which is more important than you can imagine when you n...
Sunday, April 21, 2019

Easter

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Easter. For awhile there, especially after first admitted to the hospital, I wondered if I'd be here right now. I wondered, further, i...
Saturday, April 20, 2019

Signs

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I've said it myself, many times. So please don't take offense when I enter this into discussion. I used to imagine, when I first bec...
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Friday, April 19, 2019

Parking Lot Realization

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You know this story. But I need to tell it again anyways. You see I realized something. We parked at the grocery store and I got out. ...
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Thursday, April 18, 2019

A Voice, A Visit

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Yesterday morning, I awoke, could feel Joe stirring beside me, so I wished him a good morning. We both paused. My voice was back. I'm al...
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Wednesday, April 10, 2019

Way It Should Be

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We've been at the mall a little more these days. It's one of the few places where I can get some exercise without pushing myself to ...
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Tuesday, April 09, 2019

Need

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I need so much more from people right now. One of those things is something I've written about a lot. I need to be let alone, to be ...
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Monday, April 08, 2019

An Odd Conversation

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The oddest conversation. I am sitting in my office at work and a fellow with an intellectual disability pops in and says that he'd hea...
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Saturday, April 06, 2019

Maybe Too Much Information

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If on the odd chance you have the opportunity to walk by the bedroom of a couple that's been together for over 40 years and you hear gul...
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Friday, April 05, 2019

The Context of Wonderful

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Something quite wonderful happened yesterday. To understand why it was so wonderful, you'll need some context. So here goes ... Becaus...
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Thursday, April 04, 2019

For a Day or Two

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Spotless. Uncluttered. Organized. I came through the door and almost didn't recognize the place. Joe had been busy cleaning and ti...
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Wednesday, April 03, 2019

What Happened: In Brief

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So. It's been a rough ride. I apologize for simply disappearing from this blog. I've heard from some of you, thank you for you...
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Joe and I live in an apartment right smack dab in the center of Toronto. I have worked in the field of disability since graduating from university over 30 years ago. I became disabled a few years ago now and use a wheelchair when out in the world. For those interested, most of my books are available through www.diverse-city.com and if you are wishing to book a lecture or consultation you may do so by emailing daveandjoe@hotmail.com
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