tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35743239.post70180311183929693..comments2024-03-29T03:43:45.977-04:00Comments on Of Battered Aspect: Putting Henry in His PlaceDave Hingsburgerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11918601687946534172noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35743239.post-91621755305146756712011-06-22T12:19:27.765-04:002011-06-22T12:19:27.765-04:00Some people just don't get it.
I love hearing...Some people just don't get it.<br /><br />I love hearing about you and Joe :-)Melissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00504129564539676406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35743239.post-90436705916911472032009-02-15T17:35:00.000-05:002009-02-15T17:35:00.000-05:00Now Joe can walk beside you, where he belongs, ins...Now Joe can walk beside you, where he belongs, instead of behind you.Aliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08116105964610355563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35743239.post-4642172320581550022009-01-29T19:39:00.000-05:002009-01-29T19:39:00.000-05:00I'm very jealous of your chair...Blue is my color....I'm very jealous of your chair...<BR/><BR/>Blue is my color...<BR/><BR/>And 40 years together... How many couples can claim that these days...<BR/><BR/>It's so sweet.imfunnytoohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12942406430628029505noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35743239.post-22840238928788132072009-01-28T11:21:00.000-05:002009-01-28T11:21:00.000-05:00Versions of this get said to 'old married people'....Versions of this get said to 'old married people'. Gay or not, disabled or not. Imagine Edith finds her passion in painting, and starts to make some money at it. Her bingo friends then start to tease her - "I guess you won't be keeping ol' Earl around much longer! You can take care of yourself now".Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35743239.post-27397644792558755412009-01-28T08:07:00.000-05:002009-01-28T08:07:00.000-05:00Jenn, the 'fleshlight' is the single most creepy s...Jenn, the 'fleshlight' is the single most creepy sex toy I've ever seen ... ewwwwDave Hingsburgerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11918601687946534172noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35743239.post-68124221278546769092009-01-28T05:20:00.000-05:002009-01-28T05:20:00.000-05:00I love my power chair, but it can never ever repla...I love my power chair, but it can never ever replace my Sam. It doesn't hug me, it doesn't talk with me, it doesn't hold my hand when I'm rolling down the street. Those times when we separate in stores, I definitely notice that Sam is not beside me. People can be so dense sometimes. I'd love to give the people who say things like that a dildo or fleshlight and say: now YOU don't need YOUR spouse any more, either, because you've got a mechanical device to replace him/her.Jenn McWhorterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05552776640131147824noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35743239.post-75356985418859025272009-01-28T01:14:00.000-05:002009-01-28T01:14:00.000-05:00I love hearing about your relationship with Joe.I love hearing about your relationship with Joe.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35743239.post-57770391846045756642009-01-27T18:08:00.000-05:002009-01-27T18:08:00.000-05:00Sometimes I think the most painful questions and c...Sometimes I think the most painful questions and comments are the ones meant not to be.Tamarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04624151975591059655noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35743239.post-75499222388669653942009-01-27T15:51:00.000-05:002009-01-27T15:51:00.000-05:00Hey Dave nice chair! And what a man, and couple yo...Hey Dave nice chair! And what a man, and couple you and Joe both are. I've written before, as you know about the great relationship you and Joe have. I think it's something other couples can aspire to, and it has absolutely nothing to with how anyone gets around!<BR/><BR/>I'd like to add that I adore my own partner James and can't imagine a life without him...But Nathan's chair sounds fun!FABhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04165249238828950005noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35743239.post-59983429378986037232009-01-27T15:00:00.000-05:002009-01-27T15:00:00.000-05:00Amen, Dave! Forty years together is not replaced b...Amen, Dave! Forty years together is not replaced by a chair. Good gosh. ( I would be lost without my DH of 40 years, too). People sometimes say the dumbest things.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35743239.post-22526669552590917122009-01-27T11:54:00.000-05:002009-01-27T11:54:00.000-05:00It sounds like they can't imagine a gay disabled m...It sounds like they can't imagine a gay disabled man, so they're assuming Joe's just a carer.Ettinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08230821659466586897noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35743239.post-6529931924666053392009-01-27T10:11:00.000-05:002009-01-27T10:11:00.000-05:00Nathan, um, not that it matters but, um, where wou...Nathan, um, not that it matters but, um, where would you buy the wheelchair you describe?<BR/><BR/>JaneyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35743239.post-20011448285126170522009-01-27T09:57:00.000-05:002009-01-27T09:57:00.000-05:00This one doesn't take me by surprise, but you cert...This one doesn't take me by surprise, but you certainly don't need remarks like that tossed at you and the comments are great.<BR/><BR/>It has parallels -confusing a piece of equipment with a person - hmmm where have I seen that before? Oh yeah, people do that when they see the wheelchair and not the person too. And the person pushing the wheelchair- extended to him/her too? I guesso.<BR/><BR/>Geeze.Ruthhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00170658770134559035noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35743239.post-44204953926371298532009-01-27T09:13:00.000-05:002009-01-27T09:13:00.000-05:00If if Henry made you breakfast and had a huge vibr...If if Henry made you breakfast and had a huge vibrator to swing off of, nothing can replace the love of someone who cares about you! Amen to that!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35743239.post-91722236172098676202009-01-27T08:40:00.000-05:002009-01-27T08:40:00.000-05:00How about what a wonderful partner you have Dave, ...How about what a wonderful partner you have Dave, you and Joe are a wonderful couple.<BR/><BR/>And I like the colour of your chair.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35743239.post-4051267304143988652009-01-27T08:12:00.000-05:002009-01-27T08:12:00.000-05:00Nice chair :-)Sorry that some can't manage to embr...Nice chair :-)<BR/><BR/>Sorry that some can't manage to embrace the idea of you and Joe together as something ever so much more than just "carer" and "caree" :-(<BR/><BR/>But, the fact that you still feel so much awe just at the idea of being able to live together with Joe is a beautiful and amazing thing. I hope he feels that awe about you too! (I'm sure he does :-) )Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35743239.post-15848061677550018362009-01-27T06:06:00.000-05:002009-01-27T06:06:00.000-05:00"He is the beginning and the end of my journey". ..."He is the beginning and the end of my journey". I love that line so much. I feel that way about my partner, too, but would never have put it so eloquently. <BR/>Roll on Dave, independent in the world but always with a beginning and an end to your journey!wendyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14790763688701278823noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35743239.post-1796710416401371582009-01-27T05:14:00.000-05:002009-01-27T05:14:00.000-05:00Nice chair Dave. How's Joe doing? ;-)Nice chair Dave. How's Joe doing? ;-)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com