tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35743239.post1145282570143914659..comments2024-03-29T03:43:45.977-04:00Comments on Of Battered Aspect: A Dangerous ManDave Hingsburgerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11918601687946534172noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35743239.post-61571262647918542472015-08-16T05:06:48.207-04:002015-08-16T05:06:48.207-04:00This is one of the reasons that Social Role Valori...This is one of the reasons that Social Role Valorization scares me. Because I can easily imagine SRV proponents responding to this kind of thing by saying that it means social skills lessons in how to present a socially valued image are needed. Which is... solving the wrong problem.Rutihttp://realsocialskills.orgnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35743239.post-85282676656796119192015-08-16T04:04:11.603-04:002015-08-16T04:04:11.603-04:00Anonymous 17:10 You seem to think I'be been bl...Anonymous 17:10 You seem to think I'be been blogging about abuse for all these years, I have not. I have not ever stated that this is a blog about abuse or abuse issues. I say again, and for the last time, that this is my personal blog. I don't know what your agenda is or why you are seeking conflict, as Maggie suggested. Let me state this - false allegations have devastaing consequences for their victims, they are, and should be considered to be, criminal acts. I have not written about false allegations because I have not had cause to, the fact that I haven't written about them doesn't mean that I deny they happen, deny the seriousness of their consequences or deny that, as a professional, I don't take them seriously. I don't believe I have ever blocked one of your comments about false allegations.Dave Hingsburgerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11918601687946534172noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35743239.post-78712431315740319392015-08-16T03:13:15.140-04:002015-08-16T03:13:15.140-04:00Ooh, Dave. How dare you keep your personal space s...Ooh, Dave. How dare you keep your personal space safe by moderating comments, using the Blogger.com built-in comments moderation system designed for exactly this purpose! ;-)<br /><br />Anonymous 17:10, I would like you to be aware that it makes me feel angry that someone like you would <i>cheapen</i> the meanings of words like "silencing" and "abuse" by equating them to "someone moderating comments on their personal blog". I sincerely hope that comment moderation on a personal blog is the worst "silencing" and "abuse" that you experience in your life.Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11639094548415759560noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35743239.post-22774133274995198162015-08-16T00:00:52.110-04:002015-08-16T00:00:52.110-04:00I think I sort of get a related type of behaviour ...I think I sort of get a related type of behaviour towards me in an ever so sweet treatment - the smiles, gentle, meaningless talking like I'm a cretin before the person turns back to a companion for normal interaction. And a favourite phrase about my job/career has been "at least it gets you out (of the house)...". B.noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35743239.post-4871919271384750182015-08-15T20:37:49.450-04:002015-08-15T20:37:49.450-04:00Anonymous at 17:10:
You've recently shown up ...Anonymous at 17:10:<br /><br />You've recently shown up in the comment threads on Dave's blog on several successive days, always asking about 'false claims of abuse' or something quite similar. I think I've read Dave's reply to you saying that this is his personal blog, about his personal experiences -- some of which are about being, himself, the victim of abusive or at least inappropriate behavior; others of which are about working, himself, directly with people who have been victimized.<br /><br />I don't understand why you are accusing him of silencing anyone's claims. Have you posted a comment here that has been moderated 'out'?<br /><br />I haven't read anything in Dave's blog about false claims, or even disputed claims. Am I missing something? are you seeking debate on a different topic than the ones Dave is writing about?<br /><br />As I read your repeated comments, I find myself wondering if you are seeking conflict here. Are you? Is conflict with Dave your agenda? and if so, why would that be?Maggienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35743239.post-70796411882076160912015-08-15T17:10:37.106-04:002015-08-15T17:10:37.106-04:00It looks like you've been blogging on abuse is...It looks like you've been blogging on abuse issues for 9 years, but I don't see anything about the impacts of false abuse claims stemming from defamation and slander. I do, however, see a statement that you welcome debate. <br /><br />So is your form of comment moderation actually evidence of your attempt to silence victims of slander and defamation?<br /><br />And isn't silencing victims of abuse..... further abuse?<br /><br />Why abuse the victims of slander and defamation through comment moderation? It's a very real issue since defamation and slander are very real crimes? You are the expert.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35743239.post-40462607486649020882015-08-15T11:35:38.270-04:002015-08-15T11:35:38.270-04:00Many years ago I was on a high school band from Mo...Many years ago I was on a high school band from Montreal trip to Streetsville where we were billeted with other families. At that time my dad was the executive director of a agency in the health care or social welfare world. The dad in the family I was staying with had a blue collar job. When I was asked what my dad did and I told them, I was told he didn't have a "real" job because all he did was sit at a desk. "Real" men did physical labour. To say I was taken aback would be an understatement! Cindyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12808160376479302563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35743239.post-78504180360572661042015-08-15T10:49:46.791-04:002015-08-15T10:49:46.791-04:00And he made no attempt to apologize for his horrib...And he made no attempt to apologize for his horrible behavior before he knew who you were?<br /><br />What a miserable excuse for a human being.<br /><br />It is not your job to educate everyone, and I have no idea where you would start with this one.<br /><br />This is indeed what we fear, why we hide disability if we can - the stereotypes are literally killing.ABEhrhardthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17211038591900883672noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35743239.post-54969524648223896542015-08-15T08:53:03.775-04:002015-08-15T08:53:03.775-04:00So true, Dave. As a society I wonder if we are mov...So true, Dave. As a society I wonder if we are moving further away from understanding the inherent value of each person.Colleennoreply@blogger.com